Getting your ex girlfriend back is not easy… it is a process that involves both time and effort on your part.
In life, one of the major impulses that drive women are emotions. A reason why she decided to break up may be the fact that she didn’t feel emotionally satisfied with the relationship, even if she didn’t say explicitly so. That’s why, if you want to get a chance for a new start, you’ll need to show her you’ve changed, and that you can satisfy her emotional needs.
In order to get you ex girlfriend back, you’ll have to contact her at first, but you also need to do it the right way and say the right things — You’ll need a plan! That’s key and you should not allow yourself to act frantically and out of desperation (that’s a big turn-off).
Don’t allow too much time to pass – there might be other men gathering around her just waiting for the opportunity to strike.
You can either call her, send her a text message or an e-mail.
When you spend time with your ex girlfriend initially (either face to face or on the phone), ensure you are attentive to what she is saying. Being attentive show her she is respected, and her opinions valued. Women like being respected and appreciated (same as any person really). Don’t just argue and don’t bring up big heavy relationship stuff at first. Focus also on any non-verbal signals she is sending out.
Be honest and sincere with your ex; don’t play mind games with her, there is no point. Let her know that you are ready to give your relationship a second chance but don’t just say it with words… you need to show it with action! Remember the saying “Action speaks louder than words…”? Let that be your guide!
You shouldn’t expose your intentions bluntly, but keep focusing on what she has to say; every woman feels flattered when she senses she is desired.
Don’t forget, during all this period, to keep fit, no matter if you are in or out of the relationship. This can turn into one of your assets for winning her back: if you previously didn’t pay much attention to your shape, now is the moment you can increase your attractiveness that way. This really works! It’s more than just “looks”! It speaks of your attitude and ability to cope with difficult situations.
Don’t forget that if you want to get back with your ex, you have to be ready to make a sustainable change about yourself. You can’t expect a different result by doing the same thing as before (obviously). Also you have to feel confident with this new change and new “you” or you will fail to keep it going and no one can guarantee your renewed relationship will last long.